Talk To Your Children As If They Were Magical Creatures

Talk to your children as if they were magical beings, created out of kindness and endowed with humility, respect and wisdom. By doing so, and truly believing in it, you get them to act accordingly. They will grow into amazing adults shaped by the seeds you planted in them.

Most parents know that it is not always easy to instill values ​​in their children, but as we always point out here at Being a mother, there are few things that are more important than setting a good example.

There is also something else we must never forget as parents; we must assume the role of knowledge architects, and this knowledge must be rooted in emotions – knowledge that can shape hearts and minds.

Maria Montessori once said: “You have to plant good ideas in children, because even if they do not understand them at once, the years that go by will decipher the ideas and make them flourish in their hearts.”

This knowledge architecture, which is educational and wonderful, requires all our energy and time from us, but it is a daily effort that is worth investing in.

We will explain how to do this.

Talk to your children: Your children are magical creatures, let them see, feel and believe that they are special

Just because you try to make your children believe they are special does not mean that they will think they are better than everyone else. It helps them to look at the world with confidence, know that they are loved, fight for their dreams, gain a voice in the world and build their self-esteem day by day.

Here are some tips and daily actions that can give your children inner strength and make them feel valued and special:

• Give value and meaning to everything your children say. Talk to your children and positively reinforce what they do well, and avoid criticizing and punishing their mistakes. When they do something wrong, help them change their behavior by conveying your trust in them.
• Appreciate their value in public.
• Encourage their imagination and offer opportunities for learning that they can enjoy, where they can connect with you and their environment.

Humility and kindness, two roots that help your child grow

Talk to your children about humility so that they learn to better deal with frustration. It will also teach them to share, not to feel superior to anyone else and to think of others.

As a result, the years between 2 and 6 become less intense for you, as it is usually an age that is characterized as classically egocentric.

Being kind and kind is not just a matter of social awareness, it is a value for growing as a human being and is also associated with humility.

Kindness is also the key to being a good role model every day. Do not forget that kindness is transmitted through language and tone, and in this way our children see how we treat others.

Follow these steps to teach your children kindness:

• Teach them to say “thank you” and understand the value of the word in everyday life.
• Teach them to share, wait their turn and always be respectful. Understanding that what you and I have can become “ours”.
• Let them interact with other children from a young age. This interaction with their peers helps them learn to share ideas, possessions and preferences…

Your magical creatures are wise – give them love to learn

A curious child is an easy-to-learn child, a child who feels free to interact, ask questions and address his doubts and interests. It is a child who enjoys learning. We must promote this curiosity.

Of course, not all children learn at the same pace. Each child has their own interests and their own unique abilities. Remember that all children are wise and have an innate ability to interact with the outside world. They  have the ability to find joy and see things from a different perspective that we as adults have lost.

We must encourage this gift, integrity and magic that enables them to enjoy things with such unparalleled intensity.

A child who feels safe, supported by his parents, loved and valued for all he does will be a child who enjoys learning. He or she will continue to expand their potential.

Remember to remind your beloved children every day that they are wise, humble, and very special magical creatures.