The Love Of Your Life Arrives In 9 Months

The love of your life is about to come into the world! That creature will change you forever and make you experience emotions you could never imagine.

The moment your child is born, you will understand that nothing else matters anymore.

In that moment and when you look into its eyes for the first time, you will experience total happiness. The gaze will give you peace, innocence and unconditional love.

A child immediately becomes the love of your life because there is no contact that matches this.

You’ve given him life. You have offered him a place to grow before it came into the world. Even if the child cannot express it, he knows it. That’s why he wants to keep you when forever.

Breastfeeding, having skin contact and hearing your voice reinforce this unique bond. It’s the same voice he heard for months in your stomach. You may experience doubts and have fears along the way but that is perfectly normal.

Over time, you will understand that the arrival of your little one is the most beautiful gift life could give you. It is the most beautiful sacrifice, the purest act of love you can experience.

Uncertainty and anxiety

The first three-month period can be quite traumatic for mothers. Many changes are taking place, both on the hormonal and physical level. Then physical discomfort, nausea and fatigue can increase the insecurity created by your future motherhood.  

You do not need to worry. The first thing you need to keep in mind is this is a natural process. You could say that your body is more prepared than you.

If you have your first child and you think you can not take all the responsibility, you should not be afraid of it either. You are not the first to face this challenge.

Many women have been in the same seat as you and have managed it without any problems. Your maternal instinct will guide you.

Also, do not forget that you are not the only one waiting for the love of your life. There are many around you who are willing to help you with whatever you may need.

Your friends, your partner and, of course, the future grandparents. They are part of the process and happy to help in any way.

A mother’s brain changes during pregnancy

Did you know that science has shown that the mother’s brain changes during pregnancy? The fact is indisputable proof of the connection between mother and child. The only reason for these changes is to protect the child above all else.

As a consequence of these hormonal modifications, the mother will be able to:

• Feel more empathy  for the feelings of her baby in her womb
• Perceive threats  with greater precision
• Perceive strange symptoms  that could mean that the child is at risk

Of course, there is an explanation for this. The reason is that the gray mass that is responsible for processing information is reduced in the brain. This reduction is due to the fact that the mother becomes more efficient for these tasks.

Therefore, you will be able to devote resources to what means most of all to you at the moment: to take care of the love of your life.

Preparing to nurture the love of your life

Motherhood often exposes a person’s strengths and weaknesses. To achieve a strong and unbreakable bond between you and your little one, it is essential for you to create it based on love and affection.

Although it sounds like a very broad concept, it is possible to apply it through small actions. For example  , you should always keep in mind that it is not good to reflect your frustrations, fears and insecurities on your child.

You must instead let him be and give him the tools and courage to follow his dreams. In the long run, your dreams will come true when you see them try.

Another important aspect is to offer affection and love. Do not underestimate the value of contact, caresses, hugs and of course, understanding. Both when they are babies and through childhood. You should be by their side when they grow up.

Children who grow up with the support of their parents are stronger and more emotionally stable.

This is because the stress generated by not being protected. This stress consumes the brain’s resources and seriously damages one’s self-esteem and confidence. Please do not inflict this on your child.

The love of your life is on its way. Hen is waiting for you as much as you are waiting for him. Do not try to make everything perfect for her arrival. It’s almost impossible.

By feeling the love of her parents and having contact with them, her days will be more than happy. And so will yours.